Rest in Peace daddy. — Freedom for dad

I saw him on Tuesday. He had 3 fellow inmates helping him get situated , plugged in his oxygen concentrator , wheeled him to the window , put in his code for the phone. It did my heart good to see these young men that get judged harshly for troubles with the law helping my sick father so much more than the professionals in charge of his care. They are all right in my […]

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A little more about “The Wallie”

In my post about social media etiquette I introduced several different types of men that fumble when it comes to meeting women on the various social media networks. A little reminder of the different types of men…..

The Wallie’s” they have some sweet compliments and they usually say something like  ” I hope that’s OK to say” if I say no Wallie it isn’t OK then I must be a bitch , so be it Wallie , so be it . The next type can be “The Mystery Man”  These dudes are like “hi” …..”you face so sexy” its a mystery that he understands how to inhale life systaining air. The you have “The Bill” these are the ones that are very forward but in a charming way that’s kind of sexy at first. Its soon obvious what his favorite appendage is. Last but most certainly not least there is the ever popular “Richard”   He should need no introduction. I am certain his reputation precedes him. I’ll go ahead and tell y’all anyways ……its a blog ….. He sends dic pics ….he sends them loud , he sends them proud he , he sends them first or maybe 3rd but he always , always sends them. 

This post is going to focus on “TheWallie” These guys are interested in getting to know a pretty girl , it seems as if they think they aren’t good enough or else they think they can say whatever they like. Neither one of these scenarios are gonna get them what they want. Men that lack confidence are not attractive to a lot of women. Now there are those Ladies that have that Florence Nightingale thing going on and they like that sort of thing. Not me so much but they are out there. The men who think anything is OK as long as they apologize , well that’s to close to sociopathic for me. Hopefully ole Wallie will get lucky and message someone who likes to take in strays , I wish them the best.

Next time we will learn more about “The Mystery Man”. Stay tuned

The Wallie

Me ? Kinky ? Indeed!

So I’m new to the whole blog world , I mean I’ve heard of them yes. I don’t think I’ve read a blog until now. If I am ahead in the technology game , its the zombie apocalypse. I wrote a post about myself and I can’t find the damn thing anywhere so what I’m guessing I did was delete it. I’m not going to try and rewrite it because what fun would that be ? I’ll just wrote a whole new one. This is a little about me. I discovered the lifestyle and learned some things , brought some things with me I have already learned and found my Sir. The One I submit to. He has earned my submission. He takes care of me like no one else ever has. I know He will always be there. We live our lifestyle 24/7 , we make no bones about it. I have to explain to some folks , yes we are into the bdsm lifestyle we let out freak flags fly. This does not mean we practice our lifestyle on everyone we meet. We don’t go up to strangers in Walmart and flog them , or gag the server at Denny’s when we want ice cream. Also just because someone is also in the bdsm lifestyle doesn’t mean we want to play with them. We have choices and opinions. I think some people have crazy ideas about kinksters that just aren’t true. I’m pretty sure some gentlemen from different countries have a very warped idea of American women period and throw a little kink in there and shit my life must be like a porn constantly. This is just ridiculous.


What983275bdacf0733ee2bf8d76eeae1f9b we actually do …… We get up usually in the morning. I cook breakfast , I make the best grits , I make Sir a plate then mine we eat and chat about our day. I don’t sit at His feet , I would if I wasn’t so old and stiff lol. We make our plans do this and that. Normal stuff. I’ll do a little work online. Make some calls clean up a bit. He fixes things and sharpens knives and generally maintains the shop. We have a mid day meal at some point , chit chat with some friends that live down the street we usually see a few times a week. Yes we are kinky and we go to parties and what not , demos , events , meet&greets and things of that nature , but we are just regular everyday folks. Someone you’d see buying milk at the grocery store or getting gas at Walmart  or something. Not freaks with signs saying “stay back if your scared” or ” watch out for your hole”. Just normal folks with a different way of thinking. I call my boyfriend Sir and Daddy. I do as He asks and He in turn takes care of me. Better than anyone else ever has.I’m lucky to have Him. People hear us interact and probably think I’m nuts , if they are around us long  enough , they will see why I jump when He says to. This post is not about what happens in our bedroom. That’s for us and anyone we choose to invite , of course those stories are on my kinky social media network. That’s all I got , Good day.